The use of Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram and many other so-called social media sites has never been more popular, and there are very few people that don't turn to one or more of these applications on a daily basis. As you may have noticed, it's easy to get the wrong idea about people by viewing what they post, since you are likely only seeing a highly edited version of the real picture. If you have ever felt depressed, envious, angry or irritated by reading something on social media, you know how much impact it can have on you. When going through something as stressful as a divorce, it may feel natural to turn to your favorite social media application to express your feelings, but this can be a big mistake. Read on to learn more about the dangers of posting about your divorce on social media.
You vent about your divorce: You should realize that it's not only your "friends" that could view your postings on social media, your spouse's legal team are savvy enough to keep up with you and can even get a court order to view anything they like. Anything you post is not private, so don't be tempted to use social media to make yourself feel better, because it might backfire. Going to a nightclub to relieve some tension by dancing and having fun? Those photos could come back to haunt you if you are in a contested child custody situation. Bought an expensive new television to cheer yourself up? That's a bad move if you are seeking spousal support due to financial issues. Your best bet may be to stay off social media entirely until your divorce is final.
You pay a bit too much attention to your spouse's social media accounts: Trying to "spy" on your spouse by stalking them on social media is bad idea, for many reasons. The more you get along with your soon-to-be ex, the easier and cheaper your parting will be, and you could just be asking for contention and strife by constantly checking to see what your ex is up to these days. Seek therapy instead, and protect your financial interests by keeping your emotions in check. Divorce is often considered to be "no-fault", so there's little to be gained by trying to punish your ex through this legal procedure. Let your legal team handle your ex and their behavior on social media. Do your part by blocking or "unfriending" your ex as soon as possible.
You cannot use social media to make up for real human connections, so spend your time with supportive friends and relatives instead of on social media platforms. Contact a law firm, like DeSanto and Kellogg Law Office LLC , for more advice.
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28 November 2017
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